Dream catcher
The Straits Times on 21 Feb 2012
Kim Suyoung is travelling the world interviewing people about their dreams and will compile her experience into a book
From being chased by police through the streets of Isfahan in Iran to receiving five marriage proposals in Uzbekistan and Jordan, author Kim Suyoung, 31, has expe- rienced her fair share of adventure during her travels for her project, Dream Panorama.
It involves her travelling around the world for a year, “collecting” the dreams and aspirations of peo- ple she meets. She will eventually compile her inter- views and travel experiences into a book in July.
“I want to inspire people in developed countries to strive for their dreams, just like their counter- parts from poorer countries,” says Kim, who was in Singapore last week as part of the project.
She embarked on Dream Panorama after quitting her job as a manager who does sales and marketing at Royal Dutch Shell in London in April last year.
“I believe that this project will inspire many people, so I wanted to travel for a longer period of time,” she says.
Since June last year, the spunky South Korean has travelled to more than 20 countries, spanning Europe, the Middle East and Asia. She has so far interviewed 260 people of 55 nationalities.
Her travels are largely funded by a grant of $110,000 from the Johnnie Walker Keep Walking Fund. The fund, which is sponsored by the whisky brand, aims to inspire individuals to turn their dreams into reality.
She was one of the five winners in the contest, which was held in South Korea in November 2010. Contestants had to submit their proposals, which underwent four rounds of judging.
Kim, who mostly travels alone, finds her interviewees from interesting profiles on couch- surfing websites, references from friends and requests posted by individuals on the project’s Face- book page and website, dreampanorama.com.
In less developed countries, she simply hits the streets in search of people to speak to as “that is where the life is”, she says.
Among those who have made an especially strong impression on her is an 80-year-old Palestinian woman called Mrs Badeaa whom she met in Aida Refugee Camp near Bethlehem. She was forced out of her home 63 years ago after the town in which she lived was occupied by Israel.
She has been living in a refugee camp since and, according to Kim, “she clutches her house key and still believes that she can go back home to die there”.
Aside from asking people about what they wish for, Kim has been using her travels as an opportuni- ty to live out some of her own dreams.
One of them was to appear in a Bollywood film. While in Mumbai in December last year for more than two months, the Aishwarya Rai fan snagged a 30-second dancing role in an as-yet-untitled movie directed by Sudhir Mishra.
Kim, who learnt Bollywood dancing from well-known Bollywood choreographer Shiamak Davar while in Mumbai, says: “It involved around 10 rounds of meeting people related to the director to get this role, but I also met a lot of wannabe actresses who shared their life stories with me.”
It was also in Mumbai that she says she found the “city of dreams”.
She recounted that people, from slum labourers to aspiring Bollywood actors, strive to achieve their dreams despite the tough living conditions.
She says: “Everyone there has a story to tell and you could see that they are very driven to become rich and successful.”
In contrast, she found the dreams of the six Singaporeans she interviewed during her stay here to be less inspiring.
“Many Singaporeans dream of owning a condominium apartment. Perhaps it is because life is relatively more smooth-sailing here,” she says.
The same cannot be said of life on the road for Kim. In Isfahan, Iran, she was chased for 30 minutes by a police car. The reason: She was on a motorcy- cle with her male Iranian host and it is frowned up- on for strangers of the opposite sex to be in close contact in the conservative Muslim society.
She recalls: “My host could have gone to jail. He was running for his life, I was so scared.” They managed to escape the police car after it got stopped at a traffic light.
As for the marriage proposals, one involved a Jordanian border guard who offered 300 camels in exchange for her hand in marriage.
After completing her book in July, she hopes to travel to the United States later this year for a second book of interviews. She also hopes to revisit all her interviewees in 10 years to see how their lives have changed.
“The past 10 months of my life have been equiva- lent to living 10 years of my normal life,” she says. “I have realised that happiness can come from small pleasures in life.”
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Corrections:
– Noted amount is Singapore dollars (not US dollars)
– Suyoung took dance classes at Shiamak dance school, not personally from Shiamak Dhavar
– “Less inspiring” was very relative and superficial impression about Singaporeans in general but not particularly about the 6 interviewees in Singapore for this project
A dream of dreamers
Today on Sunday (Singapore), 19 Feb 2012
For three travellers on unusual journeys, it’s the strangers they meet who make all the difference. First, meet Kim Suyoung, who is going around the world compiling the dreams of ordinary individuals
They are among the 365 people from around the world whose dreams the 30-year-old Korean is compiling for her Dream Panorama, a personal project that will see her trotting the globe for 365 days while attempting to give real time updates on Facebook and Twitter – an effort that’s become harder since her iPhone was snatched in Lebanon.
Winning sponsorship from the Johnnie Walker Keep Walking fund, she began her journey in June last year in England, leaving her riverside apartment and managerial job at Shell Chemicals. As of the middle of this month, she had been to 20 countries, including Singapore.
She finds her dreamers on the streets of the real world, as well as in cyberspace through netizens’ recommendations, and via friends. Ten years after meeting these 365 dreamers, Suyoung intends to retrace her footsteps and find out if they have managed to achieve their dreams. Some she meanwhile keeps in touch with, through Facebook and email.
Before embarking on the project, Suyoung admits, she’d thought everyone wanted to be rich. In six years of living luxuriously in London, the people she met there typically aspired to retire early, have a yacht or become a millionaire.
When she met village children on her travels, she expected them to say they wanted to get out of the slums. Instead, they wanted to be engineers or doctors. By contrast, there was the famous talk show host in Lebanon who wanted to move to a village and live a quiet life.
INDECENT PROPOSALS, AND THE KINDNESS OF STRANGERS
The journey has been a test of her faith in people. A few freelancers she hired ran off with her money and, on occasion, the men she intended to interview ended up making indecent proposals. “A lot of people try to take advantage of me because I’m a young, foreign woman. I go to meet some people, but then I realise they just want to sleep with me.”
In Mumbai, she was chased by a pack of dogs and got her clothes bitten off, and got into a car accident with a cow.
At other times, she gets by on the kindness of strangers. Travelling alone, she often finds herself being fed and taken care of by the locals – she has crashed in new friends’ homes, a Bedouin tent in Jordan, a bamboo hut in Goa, a chateau in France. “It makes me realise how people live, and you connect to more stories and people,” she said.
While she keeps her followers updated on her blog, Facebook and Twitter, sometimes they shape her path too: Someone suggested she come to Singapore after a difficult time in Myanmar where she ran out of money.
RUNAWAY REBEL
Growing up in Kwangjoo, South Korea, Suyoung had no dreams of her own.
Born to a struggling family of four children, her father was a construction worker, while her mother did odd jobs. When she was 10, they went on the run from debtors after her dad, who tried to start a business, went bankrupt. They settled in a small village, living “in a hole with no toilet, no kitchen, nothing”.
The once quiet and timid child snapped. In middle school, she turned rebellious, getting involved in gang activities, motorcycle rallies and fights. “I ended up at the police station so many times I cannot even count,” she laughed. She pointed out the fading scars from stab wounds and motorcycle burns all over her body.
She ran away from home and got into alcoholism and drugs. Then one day, she heard a song by one of her idols – aptly titled Come Back Home.
“I hated the whole world. But this song said that, because you are still young, you deserve a better future. It just went straight to my heart,” she said. “Nobody told me I could have a good future. My family was poor … I was kind of guaranteed to have a pretty difficult life. But this song, for the first time, made me realise I could have a good life.”
FINALLY, A GOAL
Returning home, it wasn’t easy to change her ways. Her former gang-mates would show up at her house and try to snatch her away. Her relationship with her parents was badly fractured. Entering high school a year later than her peers made it tough to connect with them.
“This is silly to say but, once a gang leader … it wasn’t easy to accept being an ordinary student. I considered quitting many times,” Suyoung said.
It was after reading an article on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict that she finally found a goal in life: To become a journalist.
Friends and teachers discouraged her, saying no one from her vocational high school had ever managed to go to university. Her parents could not pay for textbooks either – so she dug for them in other people’s trash. “Now that I had a goal, I couldn’t just walk away from it.”
Eventually, she won a scholarship to the prestigious Yonsei University. While there, she became the youngest freelance journalist at Donga Daily and won best article of the year. She worked at more than 30 jobs, from emceeing to real estate.
FROM CANCER TO KILIMANJARO
But shortly after she joined Goldman Sachs Korea, at 24, she had a cancer scare. Though she made a swift recovery, it left her feeling unsettled with life. “Like Gandhi said, ‘be the change … in the world’. Rather than reporting the changes, I wanted to be the change myself.” She looked at me and laughed: “Sorry, no offence.”
Suyoung wrote down her bucket list of 73 dreams (which later grew to 83) and started crossing them out. One of the first things she did was move to London to get her masters. She has since climbed Mount Kilimanjaro, learnt Spanish in Latin America and built a house for her parents.
This year-long road trip has also been an opportunity for Suyoung to fulfil more of her own dreams, such as appearing in a Bollywood film and becoming a certified Yogi.
In 2010, she published a book, Write Your Dreams, Write Your Future. It became a best-seller in her homeland, and the response gave her the idea to start Dream Panorama. “Many people emailed me and said they either don’t have a dream or don’t have the means to achieve it. I realise I cannot provide them solutions, but what I can do is give them inspiration.”
The project will be turned into a travelling exhibition, book and documentary series, after Suyoung completes her journey in Seoul this May.
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